So it goes

“Knowing” that you’ve been told your loved is beyond different than being loved. Loose tongues and those who need to be in the popular group spit lies 1/2 truths and never ask you if what is being said is true.

So short and sweet be true to yourselves –

Don’t go back to “old” post

To make

Your point


And truly watson you SUCK for

Pretending to be


Friend a

Confidant. YOU SUCK. You don’t nor ever will know the reason behind true friendship. You pretend you lie – calling me the ass when you’ve broken our friendship by spilling secrets. So keep it up it makes you feel

Better bigger person. Crush me. I’ve kept the post with me and your sister in law then You think wiser so that you are the perfect person remove her name and just punch me because your gutless. I will forever be strong you depend on pushing people into nonsense so your sense makes perfect sense. I wait And never will receive return phone calls


You lie. Be


I’m useless

You suck


You will never believe – let me tell you a story

I as people know am a widow. I became a member of this awful club on 2/7/10 after my husband of 30 years died of multiple system failure after getting the flu and being on the biological drug called Enbrel. His death was sudden harsh and threw me into a panic I couldn’t explain if I tried – that’s a face to face conversation (if you’re brave enough).

Years passed my friends left my family talks About me and man chose to be brave enough to take me on. Yeah Todd!!!!

Fast forward to 1/26/18 we have been looking for a dog to adopt. (Have you ever tried? Think I could get a child quicker ๐Ÿ˜‚). From about last spring. We had thought we would take my daughters dog because at times it wasn’t a perfect fit. But on January 26 I was remembering sad and morning Dale – you see it was our 38th Anniversary. Opening my emails just to see what I needed to do I seen “you’ve been matched with a dog click to see ” so dutifully I clicked. This little low rider dog who was a stray needed a home. His name was Dale B well guess who needed him??? ME!!!!

I’m approved!!! He’s coming from Alabama to Pennsylvania on 2/17/18.

I teased you – it’s a beginning. Never had a short haired dog – my present dog will hate it for a bit and it’s proven to me that those we love and lose look after us cradle our hearts and send us signs. In my case Dale Byers sent me Dale B on a day of past memories to make me remember that future memories are possible

Thanks Dale Byers for still loving me and sending me gifts

The end of …

Summers end was In September but it hangs on bravely here on October 9,2017. My flowers have wilted and been pulled by the roots from their place of honor as have the veggies that I already look forward to having next year.

The end to me become quickly the beginning!! Itโ€™s the beginning of looking forward to growing beautiful roses peppers marigolds and tomatoes. Itโ€™s the thoughts of how and where next year they will be planted to grow better.

The thought of buying less than perfect vegetables and over priced flower bouquets becomes I canโ€™t wait till I can go out to the garden and grab my sometimes imperfect Lillieโ€™s or potatoes and enjoy the fruits of my labors.

So the end makes a perfect beginning to me

A million an one

Everyone has a view on everything going on in the world. They are sometimes driven by religion political views or by experience.

I have them too. Iโ€™m called a โ€œliberalโ€ because I try to live by the motto โ€œlive and let liveโ€. Doesnโ€™t mean Iโ€™m right but I surly canโ€™t be wrong all the time – I stand for what I believe in and love a lively debate. Thatโ€™s the problem.

I think our society has gone from letโ€™s talk about it to letโ€™s attack each other. This boggles my mind. How can you ever have someone respect your opinion when people at times feel as if the only way to do this is through harsh demeaning criticism?

Calling someone stupid uneducated or even worse tends to make people think that itโ€™s not worth their time to listen and take into consideration your side of a story. Iโ€™ve heard people say the unkindest things to people who are important to them. I get heated exchanges but getting a point across isnโ€™t accomplished by cruel words.

So yep there are a million people who agree with each other – a million who canโ€™t – Iโ€™m the million and one who can see both sides with keeping my opinion the same. Thatโ€™s good enough for me. Iโ€™ve evolved changing or have โ€œtweaked โ€ my thoughts as I age but I truly think the world would be boring as hell if we all agreed. I wish we could do it in a civil way.

I am not the best for sure but not the worst either

I Elaine can be an ass. I can be to giving I don’t speak up enough and I certainly don’t challenge others opinions. I am not the best at things but not the worst either. I am me just plain Elaine she’ll get over it.

I love I mean really love my daughter my son in law and mostly my grandkids. I love Todd he has let me be me.

I have regress back to being nineteen again

When Dale died I did too. I needed to find me good bad and indifferent I stopped growing and became dependent on Dale. I am who I am now through grief My best friend Sharon was wonderful but I believe I’ve let her down and all others.

Those good time came with many more bad times I didn’t share. You never asked

I love you just don’t want to be the ass that argues with you. Remember that. If you ask I will tell you. If not it dies with me.

Love you xoxoxox

A scammers life (explicit language) came from 267-595-2002 phone

Today out of no where I received a phone call. A man with a heavy Brooklyn accent said “ELAINE!” I said “what? Who’s this?”

“Elaine (last name) you live at (gave my address) your brother is (name) your husband Dale died!” “Who’s this??” “Elaine listen to me your brother hit my sister and her two kids ones in bad shape we don’t think he’s going to make it!” “WHOS THIS?!!???” “You listen to me good your brother is a piece of shit! I don’t care if they walked out in front of him!! You listen to me NOW!!!” “What – wait where what happened!!!” ” he’s here with me the piece of shit!!! He hit my sister we took them to the hospital. My nephew is hurt real bad we don’t think he’s gonna make it so much blood!!! Your brother is a piece of shit!!! You hear me?” “Wait where and….” “Listen I’ve got him here now he has his kids with him – piece of shit!” “What???” “You shut the f up. Your brother is the bastard son of (moms name)!” “Wait stop where do this happen what police department and where do I go???!!!” “Piece of shit!!! You must be just like him you C—!!!” “Whoa let me talk to him!!” ” oh you whore C— just like him!!! Bitch Mother F–er!!” “Wait what is going on? where…..”. “SHUT THE F—UP!!! YOU C—!!! Listen to me good!!!” “Stop screaming what the hell are you talking about? Where do I go?? What the hell happened!?!! What hospital?!??” “My nephews deductible is $2000.00 and you need to get this now!!! I’m going to kill him and then you at (address)!!!”

So it began. I proceeded to tell him I wasn’t dressed I needed to get dressed (it was 1:15pm I was stalling ) He told me put me on speaker phone – I did “You’ve got exactly four minutes to get in the car and go to the bank!!!” Now I’m calmed down other than the incredibly uncalled for names I wanted to keep him on the phone. “Who’s withya there??? Don’t tell anyone I’m gonna kill him then come and get you and the rest of you pieces of shit!!!” “I’m alone me and the dog!!! No no I will not tell anyone – put my brother on the phone!!!” “You little bitch whore I call the shots c—!!!” “Ok don’t hurt him please-

I love him he screwed up I will pay you anything!” ” you have to go to the bank $2000 dollars – you got that??? Two thousand I’m letting you off easy!!! Bitch you listening?!?” ” Yes I have to get dressed!!!” Ok quick do it quick your wasting time quick!!!” I took the land line and called the police. They will

Send someone as soon as possible I told them to please not knock I will look for them and come outside so the dog doesn’t bark.

“You listening to me???” ” yeah stop yelling your making me upset and I can’t think”. “You have no idea who I’m connected to!!! Tell no one I mean no one!!! You hear me bitch???” I’m looking for the police. “Get in your car!! Get to the bank now!!” Wait I have to get the card to the account that has the money it’s in my safe – stop yelling!!! Put my brother on the phone!!!” ” get on the phone you piece of shit! Oh now you won’t talk!!! SonOf a whore your c— sister wants to talk to you!!! You loser I’m gonna beat you again!!! You brother c— get in the car !!” I hear smacking noises and someone moan “yeah see what your making me do to your brother??? You have blood on your hands – got the card the card to your accounts???” “I’m trying your making me nervous!!!” “You whore nobody betta be there with you – you hear me??? I have a gun I’ll kill the son of a bitch!!!” “Ok ok stop Calling me names your making me forget the combination!!”

“You mean you have more than one account? Good two thousand!!” “Ok I will

Get the certified check who do I make it out to and where do I bring it??!??” “You dumb c— cash – cash get into Your car!!! Cash you dont know who your Fn with!!! Bitch I will take him out first you second then go through the family – ya here me you think you’re so smart!!! Dumb whore get into your car!!!” “I

Can’t get the safe open I’m shaking so bad!!!” “Youse think I’m that dumb bitch get into the car cash get cash then I tell you where you go to give me the money and to get your brother before I beat him to dear then shoot him in the head!!! You here me you dumb ass whore!!”

This man went on for fifteen minutes – we got disconnected and the police arrived. I was told that it’s definitely a scam and don’t talk to him again or tell him the police know.

There was so much more I mean so much more. My plea is to please inform those who are unknowingly picked by these people and would do anything for their families to be informed that this occurs.

Police took a report my phone company can’t help because of privacy laws – “get a lawyer go in front of a judge and we can release where the phone call originated from.” His carrier Cricket said the same thing. I told them to remember my name in case anything would happen. Their hands are tied. The criminal protected while I’m waiting for him to show up.

My brother wasn’t in an accident but he described an intersection perfectly near his business.

Protect those you love by all means but know this number (267) 595-2002 never gave me a name but knew everything about me be safe please. I will tomorrow go to my local congressional office to see what if anything I can do

I will not allow this black hearted human being who’s damaged soul continue on this path


I am willing to help when I can the worse is when you plan and then you have to wait on someone.
"Be right there I can't find my keys" –
"Ok". "Still looking and I'm going to change my shoes" "ok". "Wait my (insert name) called give me just a minute " "ok".
"I'll be in the car." Ok".
15 minutes later – I go back in. "You almost ready ?" "Yeah give me a minute!!" "Ok. I have to be (insert place) in about 20 minutes." "You should have told me you couldn't do it!" "I didn't say that. ". "Wow your really grumpy today!!" "Ok".
Five minutes later they are out of the house. I go along the route. Not much is being said. "Mind stopping at the store (put what Mart you have near you)." "Can we do this when I pick you up please." "Why it's on the way?" "I'm going to be late!" "You should have thought of that!"

Moral of the story – call me when you're ready!